Laughing Women

From Breakdown to Breakthrough

I’d like to share how the idea of holding personal retreats came about and the chain of events that led to my conducting one last week in Miami. I think it’s a great example of how breakdowns can be the portal to breakthroughs as well as how beneficial it can be to follow the breadcrumbs of your passion.

Last year, I realized how much fun ‘collaborative adventures’ (also known as strategic alliances or joint ventures) could be especially when the others involved are a good fit. So, I created a collaboration with the Intentional Growth Center’s director, Larry Ousley, and one of our Life On Purpose Certified Coaches, Kathleen Stolz, to sponsor a LIVING & WORKING ON PURPOSE MOUNTAIN RETREAT. We first thought we’d hold the retreat in April, but that felt way too far into the future for me, so we decided to have one in November and a second one in April.

Well, the long and short of it, we didn’t have sufficient registrations for the November date, so we cancelled it. A breakdown. However, a couple days later one of the people who had expressed an interest in the retreat but hadn’t registered called Kathleen ready to register. When Kathleen heard how disappointed the lady was, she got creative. Since the lady already had her own place at Lake Junaluska where the retreat was going to be held and was planning on being there in November, Kathleen offered to conduct the retreat by phone with her. Long and short of it, it went very well.

Meanwhile, after Kathleen shared this idea with me, I realized I had a couple I’d been coaching that had registered for the retreat and had also been disappointed when it was cancelled, so I offered to design a personal retreat for them and to host it at Highland Lake Conference Center about a mile from my home. Since my clients already had the retreat time scheduled, they were thrilled. Long and short of it. We held the personal
retreat and it went great.

Humm, I wonder who else might be interested in a personal retreat, I thought a week or so later. Then, one of my previous clients contacted me to say that he was ready to resume our work together. Since we were approaching the end of the year, I suggested kicking off the New Year with a personal retreat here in the North Carolina Mountains. His reply, “Why would I want to be in the North Carolina Mountains in January when I
can be in my beautiful condominium here on the beaches of Miami. Why don’t we do the retreat here instead?”

Long and short of it. It went incredibly well. I love following the breadcrumbs of my passion. I think this example illustrates why I often say, “You may not know where the path of breadcrumbs will lead you, but you’ll never be disappointed where you end up.” What’s the next passion filled breadcrumb you could follow?

What Can You Control? (Blog Post for All Control Freaks)

My twenty-year old daughter, Amber, is a self-proclaimed “control freak.” She shared with me the other day how challenging it is for her to be in a situation where she doesn’t feel like she can control what’s happening. I realized that many of us experience a similar challenge. A few days later, Amber awoke to…

Being coached by Brad  through the Life on Purpose process has truly been life-changing. Not only did he help me to gain crystal clarity about my life purpose, he helped me to uncover what had been holding me back for much of my life. Through the coaching, I became clear about what was the next step that I wanted to take in my life.

My life has gotten better in many ways as a result of the coaching: the major anxiety that I experienced around my work is a thing of the past – I learned why I was experiencing this anxiety, and then how to overcome it and I can’t believe how effective it was.

I have been able to establish a habit of taking daily time for myself to reconnect with what’s truly important – this is something that I had tried and failed to do for 10 years beforehand, so I am so happy to have been able to achieve this.

I have been experiencing so many more feelings of joy, happiness and abundance since the programme, and life is just so much better. From Jonathan Dudley — a 30 year old IT Professional (turning Life Coach).

“I had always felt like I was not living up to my potential and that there was something more to life- something more I “should be doing”. What I discovered was that what I thought my life purpose was actually my parents/culture’s idea of what I should be- not mine! This was transformational and allowed me to finally decide for myself, based on my own passions, my true purpose. My Divine Purpose is now conscious and drives all decisions and choices I make in my everyday life.” Julie Chapman after clarifying her life purpose through the On Purpose Program at her spiritual center.

“I am just so delighted with everything you, this course, and the Life on Purpose Institute has given/provided to me.  Thank you, SO very, very much.

I have finished working through your book. It has been a very enjoyable and revealing process. My life on purpose is a life of freedom rooted in wholeness, beauty, truth, order and love. A life of worship, inspired action and full self-expression.

I was especially excited when you spoke about the Purposeful Project.  Wow, what a great idea!  How to get people out in the world being their true, serviceful selves.  I say serviceful because I have an inkling that even if someone doesn’t consider their life purpose to be one of service, or see that as a value of theirs, I don’t see how anyone couldn’t be of service to the world if they are living their purpose out loud.” Peggy Vervalin who clarified her life purpose in Living the Fulfilled Life teleclass.

Immediately I got my final wording sorted it ‘clicked’ it fits like a glove. I have such clarity, it has been great for examining my behaviors and how I relate to others, and for helping me to make quality decisions. I had so many synchronicities in the following days after clarifying my life purpose and continue to do so. A sure sign that I am on my path and that is very fulfilling, even without taking into account my planned purpose projects.

My self-esteem has received a huge boost. I am delighted that I committed and persevered. And one of the lessons God has been bringing to my attention is that ‘commitment and perseverance bring their own reward, a reward that can come no other way’. Which will stand me in good stead as I live out this purpose.

I look at my life purpose and it is truly the essence of me, and the essence of the possibilities I see for others and the world we live in.” Jayne from the United Kingdom

I’m Jude Eastman in Virginia.  I’m a reading specialist and teacher.  I’m also a life and soul coachJudeeastman.

My original Life on Purpose work in 2006-2007 helped me figure out who I was and wanted to BE after losing my parents and my marriage.  I am happy to say that I realized I am  the only one who has the power to decide my place in the world or my worth and I’m pretty dog gone priceless!  After that I soared -completing a master degree, taking a new job position in my teaching career, and completing coach training.

Recently I was ready to push forward in my second profession as a coach.  The Staying on Purpose group helped me accomplish what I’ve been talking about for three years!  I now have my first coaching workshop on the books, conducted a conference call, picked up some new technology skills.  I found out that doing new things doesn’t have to be stressful, but can be fun and I’m in control of that!

Thanks Brad for keeping me motivated and accountable  in such a heart felt way that was both challenging and safe at the same time!